Year 1 for joy
wedding is the most wonderful moment in life, married to such a lovely woman, what feelings do you have 7-year plan. After he finished that year again! Hugging, kissing, making love.
2
house rules enacted in men and women in marriage, I need to request their own standards, but the strange thing is that they never thought to develop a mutually understood and accepted rules, contradictions It is from this Autocracy and fight each other without the knowledge generated. State law of the land and family rules. Being in a happy family, the rules limit does not mean that it is a reminder should be the responsibility of both the limits and the same understanding of things.
married men often encounter such a situation, when he blamed his wife has done something bad, she or an immediate reason to argue in a strange side of you or hiding sobbed when his wife chatter thousand him, he will immediately retorted. This conflict actually shows the same thing in the treatment of both men and women there were significant differences.
order to avoid unnecessary conflicts these fundamental, so that the future of marriage can be approached in an orderly way line, a married man must be clearly aware of the importance of house rules. The first 2 years of marriage, passion you need to proceed immediately after the development of a well-established with his wife, both sides recognized within the family charter.
house rules should include:
1. their families should bear the responsibility;
2. the rational use of household assets and distribution;
3.'s attitude towards family and friends;
established 3 years
head of the family head of household is by no means the establishment of the first page booklet on the struggle of every married man, it symbolizes a family as well as internal and external attitude of both spouses in marriage dependent tendencies . Whether you or your wife, the goal is to make the most solid marriage and commitment have a key. The reality of marriage often appears bright master-slave relationship between husband and wife, this master-slave relationship not only represents the vast majority of the existence of marriage, but also shows the family to establish the main heads of. However, this master-slave relationship can not simply understand the problem of whom have the final say.
because under the existing marriage survey, most of the character of men and women in marriage is a complementary form, mainly from the relationship which exists to provide a reliable basis. However, the family court
the real master-slave relationship is not so direct the formation of the complementarity can be easily solved, it still needs some time for both men and women live together, learn from each other to find their location. Outgoing, brave and so is not a prerequisite for establishing the head of household, the key is who is able and willing to always bear the major responsibility of a family or engage in endless trivia, who is more calm attitude is more rational. Establishment of the head of household is a family relationship is actually established, both men and women an important prerequisite to maintain a balance.
appointment next year 4
never romance a woman because of age and a slight reduction, it will not give up the reality of marriage, a woman does not need a long-term dream of what a man to pay , but make them feel happy, but also make them more acceptable for men and men of the fault of inadequate supply of marriage.
woman is a romantic pets, they also used to waft the clouds of fantasy. If you still do not allow you free to focus financial resources to achieve the commitment you give a woman, you might as well try to describe what your wife is beautiful blueprint for the future, just as you described to her maiden grand wedding will be how much, how her wedding will be beautiful. You can tell her you are planning for up to 1 month a , so she can sit with you to enjoy a family dinner by candlelight ... ... anything can, as long as make her feel romantic and let her believe that tomorrow will be better.
break the spell seven-year itch of marriage the first 5 years of self-awareness
3,4 years after the baptism, you have no reason to push said he did not understand marriage. If you can look forward to also complain about being stuck in endless, you have to know themselves again at this time. You are not children, nor is it all child's play, or transform themselves to accept their own need to give you a definite answer. Course, your wife.
is time to ask yourself some real questions: What is a happy marriage? you think the ideal marriage should include? you do for your marriage, what? you are not satisfied with what your marriage? you to make your marriage more happy?
year 6 Math can not scale well could have been measured, but since many of the problems can be very frustrated by the creative application of mathematical methods to solve , happiness, and will have sufficient reason to become equally marvelous. Speaking of happiness, gone through six years of marriage you may appear tired, or even read from time to time have to rely on But you know what? Happiness is never simply given to others, it will not stay in the complacency of the people's side. Your happy marriage can continue, but because you lose the positive momentum inertia. If you try to use the
so-called 6 years when you do ask you to do some household chores while his wife, not a good way to refuse. You better to do the laundry, cleaning program in their own name, then your hourly employees to help. So you not only to please his wife and bear a moral responsibility, the price is just cut down a few Heyan. Will be difficult to deal with the issue piecemeal, were resolved. The problem is not marriage, in January the formation of a solution is not realistic. If the responsibility of marriage more than you have to let you do nothing, may wish to break all the way to be resolved.
happy marriage vary, the road to happiness is not the same. If you are faced with the problem Landai, boring or lonely, through the addition and multiplication ** benefit; if you are busy all day, exhausted, it can be improved with subtraction and division, the most important thing is to act up.
7 Investigation of the potential of MPI-marriage living together
despite 7 years, but you probably do not know. The actual situation in your marriage is expected to reach its ideal condition of a gap still exists between. If you can effectively develop the potential happiness of the marriage power, you will no longer worry about the current state. Investigate the potential of MPI called marriage, it is a marriage expert, David and Metz invention.
under 50 years of marriage they found that 90% of the couples in domestic felicity did not play out its potential. This also shows that the vast majority of broken marriages are more profound lack of mutual understanding only went their separate ways. To this end, David and Metz carefully designed MPI, to help determine and improve the reality of marriage. The test is simply a husband and wife in each of the parties to the marriage status of the 10 fundamental aspects to make estimates based on their feelings, play scores.
1. common goals and values;
2. to promote the efforts of marriage;
3. the exchange of ideas skills;
4. love and understanding;
5. constructively deal with conflicts between husband and wife;
6. on the duties of the unanimous view of all men and women;
7. work together to act in harmony;
8. sex life enrichment;
9. money use arrangements;
10. education of their children (for couples without children, it is discussed how the issue of family, resolution).
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